yesterday watch this programe at channel u again call just shoot, the topic they are talking abt yesterday is abt the balance between gals and boys. in some sort i few it balance but in another way i feel unblance cos in some sort gals have more adv and in some way guys has more adv. so everyone has their adv parts but something i feel really unfair is the old way of thinking where the elders think guys are more important then gals, please lor why must have this kind of thinking gals nt ur own child meh only guys ur child ah if dun hv gals where got guys na na de. but now more and more modern parents think it ok already no matter gals or guys they are still their own child, some even think gals are better now cos gals tend to stick to their own family when they are marry bt for the sons once they marry some even hardly care for their parents i got 1 example. there is a old couple live at the same block with me but different level they have a son but dun live with them. why is this so, the son even live at nice and big place why they never stay together it becasue the son got marry liao then he listen to his wife, his wife dun like to stay with the old couple. den the father of the son got sick or wat was sent to nursing home left the wife live at the hdb flat. till 1 day the old lady hurt herself when she go market, i dun kn the son kn a nt lar but u kn wat she go see chinese dr is my mum who brought her go and the old lady dun kn which relatives son bring her go WHERE IS THE SON. the son only appear when the old lady wan to sell the flat and live at old folks home, he only come and help her to pack the house and sell and send her to old folks home. why can't you send her to ur home instead na na de feel so poor for the old couple. why i say so many about this cos i also live in this old mind thinking of world last time when i was much younger, but now better cos ............................ cant say cos too personal liao. but this old mind thinking have in my family lar but nt strong as before.................. hate this kind of old thinking sia
